Love your loves

Love Your Loves

When I first meet with fabulous new clients, somewhere in our conversation I will ask, What do you like to eat? Most often they answer, “I don’t know.”

But when I ask, “If you could have your favorite foods for breakfast, anything you wanted without worry, brought to you on a big white plate, what would you have?” Within moments, their eyes light up and they excitedly share long lists of what they would *truly* enjoy.

So, where do we get stuck? We get snagged by the Snarky, Critical, Fearful Mind, which judges/edits our choices, yells, You can’t have/do that! We get scared, compliant, small…and back off. We question our loves!

When we instead listen to our Wisest, Kindest self we develop… Self-Trust — a super power — a muscle developed over time which restores permission, confidence, passion, courage, action, agency. It gives us the freedom to do, to have, to unapologetically  be ourselves.

Where do you have trouble trusting your choices, loving your loves? ♡